Don’t ever let anyone tell you that your sexual desires are only legit when they become sexual experiences. Most people know they are straight long before they indulge in any hetero sexy time, if they ever indulge at all. Just like you already know you desire women, please understand that it doesn’t make you a fraud or a poseur if you’re happily dating a man. Your sexuality isn’t defined by whomever you happen to be dating at the moment.

— Suzy, page 2
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